Two years…

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Posted on : 15-07-2015 | By : dutdot | In : Expat Blogging

Two years. 1 month.I finally found my way back to my 1st online home. www.dutdot.com.

How I missed blogging here.

In 2013, I thought of exploring Kuwait…but my life in Kuwait has been on a roller coaster mode since 2013…lots of changes in my career, schedule, and priorities.

Today, July 15, 2015, I just changed the theme “Exploring Kuwait” to “When In Kuwait”…

Yeah, I haven’t explored much of Kuwait…as previously intended..but I have explored more about life…

WHEN IN KUWAIT blog aka dutdot.com will be here to stay. Glad that this Web site hasn’t given up on me, yet.

I’m back to what I love doing the most – blogging…connecting with my inner core.

Cheers!

dutdot

 

new Dutdot.com Web site soon!

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Posted on : 28-05-2013 | By : dutdot | In : Expat Blogging, Filipino Blogger, Living in Kuwait

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When I started blogging in 2007 as a new expat in Kuwait (the posts were hosted in another site until I transferred here in 2009), it was merely to write about my homesickness, about my rants at the graduate school, and how I thought life in Kuwait would be boring.

After 6 years of living here, I have finally considered this as my ‘home’ because it’s where we have built our family.

I gave birth here for two times.

I realized that calling a place one’s home comes with life’s intricacies and delicacies.  No matter how hard life is, sometimes, there are just a lot of blessings to be thankful for. This is where we have met a set of new friends who have been there for us through thick and thin. This is where our spirituality has been nourished, and this is where our skills and knowledge on financial literacy have been founded and expanded. This is where we have created a new version of ourselves – for the better. Not that I’m saying we weren’t who we were when we were still in our home country. It’s like saying we are blooming where we are currently planted. It could have been the same if we’ve been elsewhere (read: other than Kuwait).

After almost six years of personal blogging here, (I started blogging in 2004 in the Philippines though. I had over 20 blogs/sites in 2004. lol) I thought of revamping the theme of this Web site to something that will be of help to others in knowing how it is to live in Kuwait. This will most probably help our families and friends back home to understand how we are doing here, the places that we are going, the foods and cuisines that we are eating, the malls that we are visiting, and so much more.

I am thinking of buying a new handy cam because I don’t think it would be a good idea to bring along my hubby’s Nikon D700.

Stay tuned for updates!

Update May 29, 2013

Hello! I’ve started to revamp the site. I opted to change the navigation at the header. I hid the previous menu (topics discussed before were about pregnancy, motherhood, letters for my baby, startup experiences, etc). I’ll create a new navigation that will match the new theme of the Web site. I opted not to buy a new domain. Though the new site will be more attuned for public’s consumption, the topics will still revolve about life’s touchpoints in Kuwait as an expat, in particular, and as a human being in general. This (new) site will help others (family members of OFWs or Overseas Filipino Workers) and others who want to explore life in Kuwait.

Weight Watch 2013, other stuffs, and my daughter’s 4th birthday today

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I weighed myself last night.

I still need to lose 6KG before July 1st. I don’t know how I’m gonna lose the excess 6KG in 2 months, just in time for my brother’s wedding in July.

I decided to cancel our June travel to Manila. But I’ll attend my brother’s wedding in Malaysia, along with my parents and two sibs. Hubby will travel with me to the PH but he’ll stay in Manila. Our two kids will be under the care of their new yaya. I’d be very sad to leave them behind for 12 days but my mind wouldn’t be at peace if I’d leave them in Manila. After the MY trip, I’ll go to the province to be with my younger sister.

Today’s my 1st born’s 4th birthday. How time flies! Though she’s not a skilled reader/writer yet, her wisdom is beyond her age. Last night, she asked me a profound question: “Why do we love, Mommy?” I was thinking how on earth would I answer that? But before I could open my mouth, she said, “…because we have a heart”…

I’m one proud momma. I love my 2 daughters so much.

This is a random blogging. My mind is off to researching about my daughter’s homeschool curriculum but I have a lot of things to do at work. This morning, I didn’t go out to work but decided to work from home. I think that from now on, with a new yaya at home, I’d just stay at home to work on my stuffs. It’s better that way. Yesterday, this lady/crew at Espressa didn’t welcome my presence. She removed the cord without asking permission from me. If she had a good attitude, she’d ask me politely before removing the cord.

Well, it’s OK. Lately, I also could not concentrate outside home. I just felt that, in the past, I was just wasting my money when I worked outside because I didn’t seem to finish anything.

This is all for now. I’ll be back soon.

 

Finding nursery schools in Kuwait and an expat mom’s thoughts on early childhood education

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My husband and I decided to look for a preschool for our 1st born. She recently turned three, and some sources said she must be enrolled in a preschool at her age. If not for our friend who told us that 3.5 years old kids should be enrolled in Ministry accredited schools here in Kuwait, we wouldn’t be finding the time to really look into this thing. We thought that she should be enrolled at the age of 5, just like in our home country, for formal and obligatory education.

We looked for some information on the Web. We read some blogs featuring some nursery schools in Kuwait.

Here are the links worth reading/browsing:

Nurseries in Kuwait
Finding nurseries

Regular classes will start on September.

Since we want our 3-yr old daughter to increase her social awareness and her vocabulary, we decided to enroll her at the classes in BrightMinds. Her first day went superb although she couldn’t cope yet with the cutting of paper using scissors. I have to teach her how to. She’s left-handed so I guess she needs more practice. Anyway, at the school, I’m glad that she’s sociable. She can get along well with the kids. She’s not much into following instructions yet, but I hope that she will learn to do so as the classes go along.

This morning, when I told my daughter that we’re going to school, she was so excited. I am sure she didn’t understand yet what school really is, and what she’d be doing there. At first, she was so shy to mingle. When the time came when they were asked to sit on the grass (carpet), she just observed the singing coupled with actions. But I could see in her eyes that she was carefully observing. Towards the end of the class, she started to play with the other kids. She was also hesitant to leave the place, when it was time to go home.

As soon as she woke up from her afternoon nap today, she opened her Dell XPS laptop, and opened her Starfall curriculum. It’s been a week since she first started using her laptop for homeschooling. She’s learning so fast at using the laptop, and doing the exercises at Starfall. After using the laptop, I asked her about what she did in school, and she was singing the alphabet song she learned (Zoo Phonics), with matching actions although she didn’t memorize yet the lyrics because it was her first time to hear such. I’m glad I found BrightMinds. I decided to enlist my daughter in three classes a week: Zoo Phonics; Sea Math; and, Crafty Kids. I am pretty sure her development will increase even more.

As soon as we reached home this afternoon, my husband and I talked about the schooling path for our toddler. September is the start of first term here in Kuwait. Should we enroll her on September in a formal school, one that holds classes from 7:30a.m. to 1:00p.m.? Uggh, isn’t that too tasking for a 3.5yr old? The nursery school that topped our list (for September) is 25min-ride from our house, no traffic; and, 1-hr ride if there’s traffic. Of course, relocating to a flat nearby the school isn’t an option. Other than the distance, the high fees are also taken into consideration — KD1730 to KD1800/yr.

This afternoon, hubby and I sat down and really dug deeper into our family’s direction. I realized that when you have kids overseas, a parent, I should say, both parents should have a master plan about child education. Looking through the fees for children aged 3.5 to 5, I could almost collapse. LOL.

There are a lot of questions that came up:

  1. Are we really going to settle in this country?
  2. Until when?
  3. Should we really enroll our toddler comes September at age 3.4 in a nursery school? Which school? Which curriculum? Which area?
  4. Where’s the best country to live in that offers quality education?
  5. and so on..

The questions went on and on, and still I was having a hard time answering the questions.

Since it’s so hard to really decide at this moment, I decided to read more about early childhood education.

Now, I’m brainwashed. LOL. I think I might not enroll my child in a formal school until she’s 5 years old. Period. She will continue joining the classes at Bright Minds, but not enroll yet formally in obligatory education at 3.5yo. She will continue her homeschooling program, online.

This article, Much Too Early by Dr. David Elkind, has, to a large extent, opened my mind as to what early childhood education should be. I need not stress my child. Learning should be fun. I agree with the article that

“early education must start with the child, not with the subject matter to be taught”

I couldn’t agree more with this:

“The guiding principle of early-childhood education is, then, the matching of curriculum and instruction to the child’s developing abilities, needs, and interests.”

And this one is an eye-opener for me:

“The deployment of unsupported, potentially harmful pedagogies is particularly pernicious at the early-childhood level. It is during the early years, ages four to seven, when children’s basic attitudes toward themselves as students and toward learning and school are established. Children who come through this period feeling good about themselves, who enjoy learning and who like school, will have a lasting appetite for the acquisition of skills and knowledge. Children whose academic self-esteem is all but destroyed during these formative years, who develop an antipathy toward learning, and a dislike of school, will never fully realize their latent abilities and talents.”

Really, I do believe in that.

I remember my youngest brother. Among us 5 siblings, he was the only one who enrolled at a young age of 3.5. I guess he was mis-educated. His self-esteem was damaged. When he entered grade school, the more that his self-esteem was damaged by his arrogant teachers. Too bad. Too sad.

Now, I don’t want that to happen to my children. I want them to have a healthy self-esteem about themselves, and about education. I want them to be always eager at going to school, and not already bored because they have been formally going to school since the age of 3.5, and have been sitting around for 6 hours or less, and have been commuting at an early age. I want my kids to enjoy LIFE. From infancy to less than 5 years old, joining a playgroup, and homeschooling them, I guess, would be enough to create happy memories, and happy disposition and outlook about life and education.

Dr. David Elkind is SO RIGHT in saying that:

“If we want all of our children to be the best that they can be, we must recognize that education is about them, not us. If we do what is best for children, we will give them and their parents the developmentally appropriate, high-quality, affordable, and accessible early-childhood education they both need and deserve.”

Mom Dutdot
www.dutdot.com

UPDATE:

After an hour of reading articles online, I came up with this information about education in Kuwait (Modified on 20 March 2012 at 13:29):

Nursery and primary education

 

In Kuwait, schooling usually begins at age six. Pre-school or nursery education is also available to children from four to six years old. Under a new system, primary education will begin at age 5 years.

Now, my worries are set aside.  A few weeks back, we were told by a friend about a certain issue that 4-yr old kids should be formally attending schools here in Kuwait.

Preschooling/nursery education is not a must, but just an option (of course, my kids will learn at home, and at playgroups).

UPDATE April 29, 2013

We’re lovin’ HOMESCHOOLING…

Blog update at dutdot.com

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Whoa.

It’s been almost three months since I last updated this site. Sorry for that. I missed writing letters to my two kids, too. I have been swamped with a lot of work lately. I’ll try to make an update of the things that made me busy for the past three months.

My two kids and I, and the nanny went for a one-month vacation in the Philippines last Feb to March. It’s my 2nd daughter’s 1st international flight. It’s my 1st daughter’s 3rd time to go to the Philippines. The flight went well. What made us tired during the entire flight was we carried a lot of hand carries. Too bad, really. I never learned my lessons. LESSON #1 when traveling: don’t carry a lot of things especially hand carries.

We reached Kuwait on the first week of March, and I became busy with transferring to a larger flat near our old flat. I spent three weeks unpacking, and putting things on order. LESSON #2: don’t buy lots of things overseas.

On March 4th week, we celebrated my daughter’s 3rd birthday. It came in as a surprised birthday party for her because we had an activity at that time at the church. She was teary eyed and overwhelmed of the presence of her adult friends. On her 3rd birthday, we also joined a Book Reading Club at the Pottery Barn in Kuwait.

My effort as Work-from-home mom has been rewarded. I got a surprised award from the business that I have been doing full time for a year. Thank You, God.

This April, I started to teach my 1st born on how to really use the laptop (with mouse) for her homeschool program. I remember blogging about focusing on homeschooling my toddler sometime last January. I tried to read more about the best homeschooling curriculum, but didn’t find much time to do so.

This month of April, I bought a program at Starfall.com for US$35 per year, and her development has increased tremendously. To supplement that and also to increase her social awareness and vocabulary, my husband and I decided to enroll her in a preschool in Mishref. I’ll blog more about it soon.

My youngest daughter, 10 months, is also very responsive when it comes to “studying at home” with her big sissy. It’s much easier for younger siblings (who learn much from their older siblings) to absorb new lessons around them.

So far these are the things that have been keeping my hands full. Now that my business and online work are growing at a much faster rate than I expected, and my toddler is attending homeschool and preschool, and I’m also trying to give quality time to my 10-month old baby, I will be extremely busy in the next few months, and years.

This is all for now.