Posts Tagged: developmental milestones


21
Dec 09

Dear Baby: 26th natural letter for my baby

T H E  26th   L E T T E R

Dec. 21, 2009 @ 11:33p.m.

Dear Baby,

I’ve been meaning to write you letters, but, just the same, I was very preoccupied with a lot of things. So sorry for that, baby. I also missed cuddling you, and talking with you. Uh-oh. I kinda feel bad because it seemed you didn’t improve much in terms of your speaking skills. Physically, you gained a few pounds, and I think, you also gained some inches. Tomorrow, I’ll start teaching you how to walk.

We’ve been in the Philippines for a MONTH, actually, exactly ONE month today! Our travel went well. I hope that it would be the same when we get back overseas since it would just be the two of us — Daddy went with us in going to our home country, but could not accompany us in getting back to where you’re born (overseas) because of his new work. Daddy will spend the holidays alone in our flat…sigh. It’s actually our first Christmas as a family, your first Christmas, too, on Earth. Anyways, I am sure that you’ll enjoy your first Christmas with Mommy, and your grandmas, grandpas, aunties, and uncles. Daddy promised to give us a post Christmas celebration in Rome by March and that would coincide with your first year birthday.

Speaking of birthday, it will be your 9th month birthday this Sunday. Wow, how time flies, baby! NINE MONTHS! Wohooo! It’s gonna be a big celebration. I wish to spend more time with you so that you’ll be able to develop more skills while we are here in our home country.

I wish to reminisce how you have been doing on your 8th month. Before we left our flat overseas, Daddy and Mommy heard you saying a vulgar word. Uh-oh. That’s kinda disgusting to tell here, but, it’s a lesson for Mommy. After you said that word, Daddy and Mommy just looked at one another with a puzzled look — how did you learn to say that; why did you say that WORD — exactly the way it is pronounced by adults. LOL!

You also mentioned your name – your nickname – and we’re all amazed at how you pronounced it – at seven months, barely a week before you turned eight. You can now also say auntie, (sometimes you pronounce it as ate); you can say ‘unke’ for uncle; you said the word seki for sexy; you said the word dirty, too, for several times. You can now say the word “mommy” – but not so often unlike when you mention the word “daddy”.

You now know how to wave your hand when we tell you the word “bye-bye”; you can now dance and you are enjoying it much by wiggling your body, tapping your legs, and waving your right arm over head.

You love to make face by wrinkling your nose, a habit you learned from your grandpa, papa. Although I find you so cute when you do that, I hope that you won’t do it often. Hehe.

You smile at everyone. You are the apple of our eyes. Everyone’s attention is for you.

You always say Daddy every time you’re awake. You must be missing Daddy very much because you call your grandpa, uncles as Daddy. You even thought Bong Revilla (on the TV screen) was your daddy. There was a time I cried hard – was it last Dec.10 – when I got your Daddy’s ID picture from my wallet, and said to my mama and to your yaya that “this is my husband; he was still slim here) when you suddenly grabbed it and said, “daddy!!!”. My mama teased you and said, “he’s my daddy, too!” and started to grab the picture from you – and you cried hard while you said in between tears the word, “daddy”….

A few days back, it was so touching, too, when you touched the face of your daddy on the laptop screen when we were having a videoconferencing with Daddy.

On our first week at the province, you got rashes and mosquito bites. Daddy, Mommy, and you got sick. But thank God, your colds vanished quickly because of Green Barley. The aircon was installed so you’d have a good night sleep.

This is all for now, baby. I will write you frequently, I promise.

iloveyou,

mommy



15
Oct 09

Dear Baby: 13th natural letter for my baby (1st letter for baby after delivery)

T H E  13TH  L E T T E R

Oct. 15, 2009 @ 9:09p.m.

Dear Baby,

Welcome to the World! This should have been written by Mommy six months ago, but Mommy’s hands were so full. You see, it was just Daddy and Mommy, who take good care of you. We’ve got no nanny, ah, yes, you’ve got a yaya for just two months. But she already left to look for a greener pasture, of which she regretted. She wanted to come back, but it’s already too late.

I am sorry that I lighted the gas stove while holding you in my left arm. I forgot that you’re still a baby! Glad that you behaved well awhile ago.

I can’t wait to write so many things about you – particularly, how advanced your mental and physical developments are. You may be lagging behind in terms of weight and height gains, but, still, you’re as active and mentally developed as a toddler! How many times did you surprise me of your antics – you are already speaking a lot of words since you’re 17 days old. However, the past two months, you became a bit less talkative, but you still blabber a lot with words that only you could understand. It’s as if you’re talking animatedly in a conversation. Nowadays, however, your physical development is advanced. You are now sitting and standing on your own.

You love to “read” books. You don’t stop until you’re able to know how to open the business book. You love to play with your toys, but you want new toys every now and then. It seems that your old toys are boring you already. You love to play with a tissue paper, and even a new diaper fascinates you.

You love to growl like a lion when a certain thing got your interest. You love to sing a song and you’re already playing the keyboard of the piano. You love to tap the keyboard of Mommy’s laptop. You are a camera-conscious baby since you’re 5 days old, and you really pose like a pro.

At six months, I just couldn’t leave you behind. You cry when you see no one around you. You cry when Mommy goes to the bathroom or outside our room. You’d await for your Daddy’s return from the office with enthusiasm by listening intently on the opening of the door, on his footsteps, and to Mommy’s cue that Daddy’s coming. Upon seeing Daddy, you’d flash your sweetest smile. But after some minutes, you’d cry and start looking for Mommy.

You’d cry when visitors call your attention or approach you. But you wouldn’t cry when there are people around you, but they don’t take notice of you.

You love to pull Mommy’s hair. One time this week of October, 2nd week, you surprised me when you attempted to pull Mommy’s hair, and you thought that you got some hair strands by looking at your left hand!

I cried with you when you cut your lip, when blood came rushing through your mouth because your mouth was pressed into that bottle of diaper rash that you were playing.

You cry like you’re a seven-year old already. I’d often tease you, “Grade One, baby?” when you start crying, for it’s really loud. People are surprised to see and hear you crying, for so much tears swell from your eyes.

Daddy and Mommy couldn’t just massage your body for two months now. You’re always in a hurry to roll over when we put you to bed. You’d love to roll over, crawl, and get the things on the table or even below the bed.

You love to crawl or roll over when we change your soiled diaper, either with urine or poop. You have been constipated at the start of your 6th month. But you regularly poop even if they were so small and hard.

You sleep like a chicken. You’d get up at once when you feel recharged by your short naps. Your Daddy says you’re like Wolverine; your bruises and rashes heal at once.

You don’t like to be swaddled. You would cry hard when we swaddle you with your blanket, but eventually, you’d fall asleep despite your resistance.

You love to listen to conversations on the phone.

You easily flash your sweet smile when we smile at you.

You may be currently underweight, it’s sad. But what matters most is that you’re an active, bubbly, and healthy baby.

More stories to write soon…

iloveyou,

mommy

P.S.

This time I will rewrite this letter from the Web to paper.


27
Aug 09

The counting baby

My gifted baby (pwera bati) turned five months today. And oh, how she’d love to be on her own! Is she declaring independence already? Oh no.

For several days now, she has been crawling a lot. When she crawls, she does it from point to point if and only if we’d leave her alone. Not only that, she would act as if she’s jumping. She’d throw her body while she’s rolling over. Oh God.

Last night, while she was lying on her stomach, her yaya witnessed that she was acting as if she was counting her fingers. Her left hand was on the bed while she looked at her right hand and started moving her fingers like she was counting them. Continue reading →


25
Aug 09

My not-so-ordinary barely five-month-old baby Part II

Yesterday, I blogged about the part I of my not-so-ordinary four-month-old baby. I realized it’s just two days before her fifth month birthday.

Thank God, she would be OK now. (I asked ma and pa to go to the faith healer and consult about what has happened to baby; she barely drinks her milk. (Nausog sya ng babae na may mahabang buhok. It’s just me and her yaya, who she frequently sees at home. The culprit must be one of us.

The first thing I do when I go online is to blog about my baby. I am so engrossed at her (ahem, pwera bati), advanced developmental milestones. I am addicted in blogging about her. Even though sometimes she got into my nerves (haha, imagine she’s just a baby and she’s getting into my nerves already!). Oh God. Forgive me. Just this morning, I already slept at around 4a.m., and since I was lacking some sleep, my head was achy; but, I had to get up to feed her. When I finished preparing her milk, she didn’t drink it all. I got so worried, not to mention, pissed off – maybe not at her, but at what she is doing. I am afraid that I am hitting the postpartum period. Ohh. I hope not. I have barely recovered from sleepless nights and restlessness. My temperament must be caused by extreme fatigue and sleepless nights.

As I was still asleep, I felt some cold tiny fingers on my face – my baby must be trying to wake me up. I managed to get up, and tried to feed her again but to no avail. I asked her sleepy dad to feed baby because I was already feeling so anxious. My golly. I hate it when I am worried.

While she was with her daddy, she was playing with her rattle – the one with a cat on it. She amazed us once again by saying “hi” to the cat!

Another astonishing thing she did today was to wave at her daddy and said “bye” when she heard that word from her daddy. Golly wow. And whoala, is there a four-month-old, over a four-month-old, who acts as if she wanted to stand already on her own? Yes. Every time she rolls over, she would lift her body as high as she could; she stiffens her arms and knees to support her body. Her daddy and I both know that we owe her strength and physical stamina to Green Barley.

To my gifted baby (pwera bati!), I love you. I am sorry for the times I lose my temperament. Know that I wouldn’t hurt you. I am just overly worried about your drinking and eating habits. I promise to give you the best mothering care and love that a mother could give. Peace and love be with you always.

Love, Mommy

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